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Comments for HMJ Foundation https://hmjfoundation.org Helping families, couples, communities, and friends keep their relationships strong during a faith crisis Tue, 24 Oct 2017 03:04:59 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=5.8 Comment on 024: Update with Dr. Money plus Porn and Marriage by mynamesnotsteve https://hmjfoundation.org/2017/05/15/024-update-with-dr-money-plus-porn-and-marriage/#comment-202 Thu, 25 May 2017 23:01:18 +0000 http://hmjfoundation.org/?p=3272#comment-202 First, congratulations on all of your good news! All the best during this busy time.

This was a fascinating episode. I appreciate Scott’s changed/more healthy views of sexuality. However, I can’t imagine any orthodox mormon being ok with “integrating porn” into their marriage relationship. I’m in a mixed faith marriage with a low (very low) sex drive partner. It would be easier to end the marriage then to have this kind of conversation. So i would really love to know how Scott and Mitzi make it work, does he view porn often, does he always tell her when he does, do they view it together, or does their new found connectedness remove any need he has for porn?
thanks,

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Comment on 015: In-Laws, Faith Journeys, and Boundaries by Marco https://hmjfoundation.org/2017/02/20/015-in-laws-faith-journeys-and-boundaries/#comment-122 Sun, 16 Apr 2017 22:57:44 +0000 http://hmjfoundation.org/?p=3143#comment-122 In reply to Michelle Webb.

Your comments make all the efforts worth it! So happy to hear that – breath on friend!

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Comment on 015: In-Laws, Faith Journeys, and Boundaries by Michelle Webb https://hmjfoundation.org/2017/02/20/015-in-laws-faith-journeys-and-boundaries/#comment-114 Tue, 11 Apr 2017 02:33:27 +0000 http://hmjfoundation.org/?p=3143#comment-114 All I can say is thank you. A million times thank you. I’ve been feeling like I couldn’t breathe, and this has helped open up an airway for me.

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Comment on 022: Bill Reel, the Backfire Effect, and Healthy Practical Tips for Journeyers by Brent https://hmjfoundation.org/2017/04/09/ep022/#comment-113 Mon, 10 Apr 2017 22:10:50 +0000 http://hmjfoundation.org/?p=3257#comment-113 I’m enjoying listening to this episode. Thank you for posting it!

I just got to the point where Kristy mentions a BYU conference about doubt and doubters that had some counter-productive messages. I don’t remember this conference, and am curious to see what was said. Do you have a link?

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Comment on 021: Dr. Kristy Money on Her Journey, the Birth of the HMJ Foundation and the New “When a Loved One’s Beliefs Change” Infographic by Lisa https://hmjfoundation.org/2017/04/02/ep021/#comment-111 Sun, 09 Apr 2017 17:15:10 +0000 http://hmjfoundation.org/?p=3230#comment-111 Kristy, another great podcast and infographic. Thank you for your sharing and your vulnerability!

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Comment on 021: Dr. Kristy Money on Her Journey, the Birth of the HMJ Foundation and the New “When a Loved One’s Beliefs Change” Infographic by Haley Lewis https://hmjfoundation.org/2017/04/02/ep021/#comment-109 Mon, 03 Apr 2017 03:59:56 +0000 http://hmjfoundation.org/?p=3230#comment-109 This graphic if amazing! Thank you so much! Just one small edit suggestion, there is a typo at the bottom. “Dissmiss” should be “dismiss”, correct?

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Comment on 019: Strengthening a Friendship While Disclosing a Faith Journey by Marco https://hmjfoundation.org/2017/03/19/019-strengthening-a-friendship-while-disclosing-a-faith-journey/#comment-93 Sun, 26 Mar 2017 14:32:21 +0000 http://hmjfoundation.org/?p=3207#comment-93 In reply to April Cook.

Hi April – thank you for taking the time to write a very heart felt message. To be honest this particular issue was, in a way, the tip of the proverbial iceberg. I totally validate that the approach you’ve outlined above has been very helpful to you – at the same time however, I’ve come to accept that the same prescription did not work for me as I attempted it for 9 months or so. I’ve actually found peace/joy in accepting my answer and moving on.

I will say though that the goal of sharing this particular note was to give context to how empowering Saul & Katelyn’s reaction was.

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Comment on 019: Strengthening a Friendship While Disclosing a Faith Journey by April Cook https://hmjfoundation.org/2017/03/19/019-strengthening-a-friendship-while-disclosing-a-faith-journey/#comment-91 Fri, 24 Mar 2017 20:44:29 +0000 http://hmjfoundation.org/?p=3207#comment-91 Like you this topic has been difficult for me. I have done a lot of research. I have read essays written by members of African decent who defend the church. These essays are filled with so much love and faith by members that have been directly affected. I can’t say that I fully understand the answers to this topic but I know what I do know… I know that the Book of Mormon is the word of God. I know because I have studied it and wrestled with so many questions on other matters that I wanted to understand. Every time I set aside my doubt or my thought of what the answer should be, and follow the “study, ponder and pray” prescription, with the intent of proving the gospel and/or the Church rather than wrong (I have learned this is a crucial element), I come to a place of light, peace and understanding. Some wrestling took years to overcome but I found that with persistence the answers were so overwhelmingly sublime that I knew they came from Heavenly Father. I can’t say that I have all the answers now but I have followed this pattern so many times, always with this positive result that my faith is unshaken in matters that I do not understand. Don’t give up. Understanding God is like obtaining a PhD – it takes time, effort, study and dedication but it is so rewarding.

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Comment on Materials by 015: In-Laws, Faith Journeys, and Boundaries – Healthy Mormon Journeys https://hmjfoundation.org/materials/#comment-22 Mon, 20 Feb 2017 16:03:44 +0000 http://localhost/wordpress-3-5/?page_id=551#comment-22 […] Materials […]

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Comment on 011-014: Kevin Rahm on Growing up Mormon, Mission, BYU, Acting Career, and Reaching Peace and Balance by A.B. https://hmjfoundation.org/2017/02/12/011-014-kevin-rham-on-growing-up-mormon-mission-byu-acting-career-and-reaching-peace-and-balance/#comment-20 Wed, 15 Feb 2017 09:15:56 +0000 http://hmjfoundation.org/?p=3104#comment-20 Holy cow. I loved this. One of my favorite actors.

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